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Question date: 10/06/2009What is the 'reality' of the sexual abuse scenario?
This is a man-layered and complex issue. As you well know, sex or sexuality has become the dumping ground in many ways for human bitterness and resentment about their perceived lack of freedom. It is useful to remember that reality is a slippery subject at best and that, in reality, there is no past or future, there is only now. Our minds are only interpreting vibrations that are happening in this moment. The question of memory, from this standpoint, is a complex situation, for what is memory if there is no time? As the universe unfolds, there is a constant birth of new vibrations which evolve, entrain and harmonize with other vibrations which may cause them to be out of harmony with other vibrations. A memory is really a vibration or more accurately a vibratory pattern that is part of this unfolding process. Memories emerge in humans at certain times that were never there before and they are just a part of a larger vibratory pattern of that person as they move towards a more harmonic vibratory level. Remember that your story is being made up right here and right now. It is like a dream, it seems like it has always been true that you were this person and that this is your past and this is your future, but in reality that is only this very moment and all that could change in the next moment and you would not even remember that it had happened. Your new reality would seem like it had always been the truth. Just as in a dream, where you have no indication that you are dreaming and everything seems just as real as what you are experiencing right now, so is what you call day-to-day reality a dream. It is simply your conscious mind attempting to make sense of a wide range of vibratory experiences. And so, in what is called mass consciousness or the group mind, certain vibratory patterns emerge and become part of what one calls one's memory. In fact there is no way to prove or disprove whether any of it is so-called 'true', for there is no way to go back to the past. There is great rage, resentment, bitterness about sexuality; it is the ultimate insult to the human spirit to place limits and shame on sexuality. Anything which has been so badly treated is going to become distorted and perverted. As you know, you do not have to experience something physically to know the horror, the shame or the fear of it. And when the mind experiences shame and other feelings without explanation, it soon comes up with a story to fit the feeling. So if there is great shame around sexuality in a family, a child's mind will begin to invent reasons for that. There is no doubt that children were overpowered and made to do things they didn't want to do and didn't feel right to them. But that has been on many levels other than sexual and the rage and anger at being overwhelmed or overpowered, coupled with the shame around sexuality, creates a powerful recipe for the imagination. So how do you answer the question? There is no yes or no answer. You can only recognize that there is no reality, there is no past and whatever is occurring in this moment is simply the human mind interpreting vibrational patterns emerging in the unfolding of the universe. Capturing these moments and trying to stop them is what causes human struggle. Placing importance on unraveling a story rather than going with the vibrational flow, places the emphasis in the wrong area. It's more important to find the feeling that accompanies the memory. To discharge or release that feeling, to become one with that feeling, rather than to distance oneself and judge it, will release it so it will not be a fixation. It is important to understand that the idea that a person was born perfect and then was limited and treated in ways that damaged them, although useful in some ways, is not completely accurate. All of that story, anyone's story is simply that: it is a story. It is a metaphor to understand an evolving vibrational pattern. The human mind has the ability to affect the vibrational pattern adding harmony or disharmony to it. Adding disharmony is suffering, adding harmony is joy and exhilaration. The story of our past is how we teach ourselves to add harmony. Remember it is only a story, only a metaphor, a fairy tale, a fable; it is not some hard reality that can be proven or dis-proven. As our vibration changes, the story inevitably changes. To not fixate on the story. Learn from the story how you add harmony or disharmony to your vibration. That is all you need to know.

 

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Question date: 12/08/2011 Am I on the right path? I love to fully immerse myself in my spiritual life. As a way of expressing it to others, I am absorbed in writing and publicly reading poems about that life. There is very little I care about doing except to meditate or be quiet with myself, write poems and sometimes letters, and talk at length with friends about these things. But there are also many types of work and entertainment which I used to do, but am not interested in any longer. These are mostly engaging with family on various projects that range from maintaining property to watching movies to caring for my somewhat disabled brother. Maybe I was only pretending to be interested in such matters, or perhaps the scope of my attention has narrowed a great deal. At any rate, I feel guilty that I have lost interest in activities that are still a focus for people I love and who love me. I want to move forward to a life of meditation and poetry and talk, but feel I need to better express my directio n to my loved ones, so that they might better understand and help me achieve my wishes and needs, while I can still help them achieve theirs. Am I on the right path?

 
Question date: 12/08/2011What is the role of surrendering in the body in terms of surrendering to God?

 
Question date: 09/06/2011Explain cause and effect.

 
Question date: 08/11/2011Question from Sabrina: I have been told that I have come to the end of a long life cycle and have passed the test so to speak. It is now time to move forward and be the person that I was alwasy ment to be and get on with my real lifes purpose. So my question would be where to begin and is there something that I am to do or am I to wait and see what the universe brings to me?

 
Question date: 07/15/2011J.T. Speech impediment

 
Question date: 06/20/2011How effective a technique is the "Ask & Receive" process for changing beliefs?

 
Question date: 05/13/2011What about people who communicate with the dead?

 
Question date: 05/02/2011Re: Ramtha's prediction for the Tsunami in May, 2011

 
Question date: 04/21/2011M. W. Question: Where to look for employment?

 
Question date: 04/18/2011How will our system - political, economic, religious - ever be able to come together and function in a better way?

 
Question date: 04/04/2011C. A. Question: In what way can I create more sustainable income?

 
Question date: 03/30/2011What effect does 'Mercury in retrograde' have on us?

 
Question date: 02/25/2011What was the significance of Judy's mentor, Henry, and what happened after he died?

 
Question date: 02/22/2011What's the best way to lose weight?

 
Question date: 02/12/2011Is there anything else we need to know about trauma?

 
Question date: 02/07/2011re: UFO's and having "unreal" encounters

 
Question date: 01/19/2011Why does Ernest Holmes talk about immutable physical laws and why don't these laws seem to apply to human health?

 
Question date: 01/19/2011What is the value of the "I want to live"/"I want to die" polarity exercise?

 
Question date: 11/24/2010D. S.'s question: Is it helpful for me to identify myself as a spiritual person?

 
Question date: 11/11/2010What is the role and/or importance of age in intimate relationships?

 
Question date: 10/26/2010Is it effective to use bioenergetic exercises to get to that place of surrender?

 
Question date: 10/13/2010What is the truth about vitamins?

 
Question date: 10/13/2010What's the difference between 'Abraham' and 'Ariel'?

 
Question date: 10/08/2010Can releasing rage re-traumatize?

 
Question date: 09/13/2010Re: the new idea of not referring to this process as Ariel

 
Question date: 09/13/2010RE: Michael Beckwith's social justice vision and it's relevance to our lives.

 
Question date: 09/09/2010More distinction of difference between Michael speaking from deeper awareness and his 'normal' awareness.

 
Question date: 08/31/2010Is it important to know about 'past lives'?

 
Question date: 08/16/2010Is there a need for an initiation to accomplish access to intuition or deeper awareness?

 
Question date: 08/15/2010Do people make decisions about sickness and death before they come into this body?

 
Question date: 07/26/2010What will happen in 2012?

 
Question date: 07/25/2010How can seniors (or anyone) find their purpose?

 
Question date: 06/17/2010Talk about living a prayerful life.

 
Question date: 06/02/2010Explain the difference between Troward's conception of subjective mind and the psychological conceptions of conscious and unconscious and subconscious.

 
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Question date: 05/04/2010What is happening when the Amega wand is used for healing?

 
Question date: 04/30/2010K.F.'s Question: How do we determine what we are meant to "do" in our life, in the realm of work and money? I feel like an abundantly creative, deep, thoughtful spirit, and find it hard to translate this into meaningful work and money.

 
Question date: 04/27/2010Explain intuition.

 
Question date: 04/06/2010How does talking about the world as being 'polluted' relate to knowing the truth?

 
Question date: 03/30/2010Do spiritual teachers transition from earth plane when their work is done?

 
Question date: 03/12/2010Explain the difference between feeling the feelings in the present moment and Abraham's 'getting into the 'vortex' by way of positive thinking?

 
Question date: 03/09/2010D. I.'s Question: What can I do to always a good night's sleep?

 
Question date: 02/09/2010Re: Abraham's message concerning therapy vs getting in the vortex

 
Question date: 01/01/2010Is there a reason behind why some women experience postpartum depression?

 
Question date: 12/26/2009What is the message in physical symptoms?

 
Question date: 12/15/2009What makes EFT process effective if it truly is effective in changing beliefs?

 
Question date: 12/10/2009What about images or memories that arise that pertain to the past?

 
Question date: 11/18/2009Question from SS: How do I go about connecting with spirit?

 
Question date: 11/09/2009Explain the relevance of Bashar's 15 minute process of belief changing.

 
Question date: 11/09/2009How would you go about helping someone get in touch with their feelings?

 
Question date: 11/09/2009What is the Ariel perspective on the differences between Richard Moss's approach vs. the Abraham approach?

 
Question date: 11/03/2009How can we help people to discover their limiting beliefs and clear them?

 
Question date: 10/06/2009What is the 'reality' of the sexual abuse scenario?

 
Question date: 10/05/2009Meditation for connecting.

 
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Question date: 09/29/2009A guided meditation for connecting while driving the car

 
Question date: 09/29/2009Step by step approach to manifesting everything that we want

 
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Question date: 09/28/2009What is the value of Hew Len's 'cleaning' on inanimate objects and 'cleaning' in general as a reason for being in physical form?

 
Question date: 09/22/2009What is the purpose of the human manifestation?

 
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Question date: 09/05/2009How traumatic is circumcision for the baby?

 
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Question date: 08/10/2009What to do when someone asks for something and you don't feel like saying yes?

 
Question date: 08/04/2009What is the best way to 'clean' on our food as it is referred to in Hew Len's book, "Zero Limits"?

 
Question date: 07/21/2009What is the best technique to address alignment with prosperity?

 
Question date: 07/17/2009J. F's question regarding relationship.

 
Question date: 07/17/2009What is the best way to align with vibrational escrow?

 
Question date: 07/13/2009What about exercise? Quantity, quality, necessity?

 
Question date: 07/10/2009How effective is Psych K for changing beliefs?

 
Question date: 07/10/2009What is the advantage of a raw food diet?

 
Question date: 06/25/2009What is the best way for us to connect with god as a daily practice?

 
Question date: 06/23/2009Why do the great teachings leave out the emotional work?

 
Question date: 06/23/2009What is the importance of freeing up the body to energy flow?

 
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Question date: 06/11/2009Re: creation of the physical world.

 
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